With the VX.2 version of the software you can control this using the new 'Compound' symbol capability. It does require you to edit the symbol in VX.2 and set the location of the 'name' in the alternate views (shown in the tabs). If you have the VX.1.2 StarterLibrary those symbols have already been updated to support this functionality (PADSVX.1.2\SDD_HOME\Libraries\xDX_Designer\SymbolLibrary\Builtin\sym\bi_flat.1 for example)
The bi_flat.1 is an ANNOTATE symbol, i have a PIN symbol (please check the picture in the first post). My problem is not on the XREF text position but in the name that appear near the symbol when i attached it to a net. This net name is automaticcaly placed over the symbol and i can't find how to edit this.
The answer is still the same, whether it is an annotate or pin, you can control the location of the 'name' in VX.2. bi_flat.1 was just shown as an example of how this works in VX.2 as we've already updated the symbols we deliver in the base libraries in VX.2