1. You probably have the option for displaying the Pin ID on both halves switched off, if you go to the configuration editor you can switch it on.
2. There isn't an easy way around this, you could add the inline name as a Custom Property and switch it on although this is manual peice of text. A lot of customers do display this level of detail without any problems and because I haven't seen how you layout your schematics it's difficult to advise further on this one.
The txt is way to long for the drawings and without it, VeSys wont work without it in the male and female half. I dont want the detail on the drawing but I understand we have to have it for the import to work as VeSys can not tell the difference between the two ends of a connector so adds the a link wire on say the male side of a connector, on to the female side on a harness drawing.